Happy Christmas, Hanukkah and Festivus for the Rest of Us

I was in Target the other night and ordered a soda and pretzel from the lady at the snack bar.  She must have said "Merry CHRISTMAS" five times during our short transaction.  I replied, Merry Christmas once or twice.

After the transaction was done and I sat down to eat my pretzel, I got the whole schpeel.  The lady went on ad nauseum about how she says "Merry Christmas" and not Happy Holidays, and it's Jesus' birthday and Jesus is the reason for the season and political correctness is killing our culture, and the Happy Holidays and Seasons Greetings phrases are anti-Christian.  ...and she's a Christian.

Geez.  I just wanted a pretzel.

I was once married to an Iranian (who knew?). This was back before the Iranian Revolution and before the conservative Islamic traditions were adopted in Iran.  My ex husband was raised in a good Muslum (Moslem back then) family.  His parents did the traditional prayers daily. 

It was amazing to see this family react to how Americans celebrated Christmas.  They were enthralled by the magic, the decorations, the music, the food, wrapping, trees, Santa and the coming together of the entire country over one special day.  And though they were not and never were going to be Christians, they wanted to be a part of the joy.  Eventually they got a tree and did the presents and the wrapping and did their version of celebrating.  It was precious to watch, really.

The Christmas spirit is a living thing.  It's palpable. And though it's rooted in the birth Christ and the belief that he was God incarnate, the Christmas message of peace on earth and good will to all can resonate with all faiths.  It's something the entire world can embrace - even the non-Christians.  Isn't that a beautiful thing?  Must we quibble about words?

Who cares how we greet each other if the greeting is filled with love and sincerity?  If you wish me a Merry Christmas or a Happy Holidays, why should I scrutinize your intention or dilute the power of a spiritual moment by focusing on which words you chose?  

Here's to wishing you happiness and joy during this holiday season.

Merry Christmas.

Other Christmas Posts:  
Five Christmas Traditions to Enrich Your Holidays 
Happy Christmas, Hanukkah and Festivus for the Rest of Us
The Santa Diaries - A Private Look at Christmas in St. Michaels
5 Tips for Writing the Perfect Christmas Letter
An Eastern Shore Solstice - Darkness is Ebbing
When People Hurt at Christmas

Burgoyne Christmas Letters
Christmas Letter 2013
Christmas Letter 2012
Christmas Letter 2011
Christmas Letter 2010
Christmas Letter 2009
Christmas Letter 2008
Christmas Letter 2007
Christmas Letter 2006


  1. I've given up...now I just wish people a Happy December. I don't think anyone can take offense to that (though I'm sure someone will try). Great post!

    1. thanks! Now don't be cynical. Your warm "Happy December" or "Merry Christmas" will touch hearts. It will. The ones who aren't touched wouldn't respond well to much. A very warm Merry Christmas to you and yours.

    2. Hey, I checked out your blog. Nice!

  2. Heritage Chick9:43 AM

    Love it -Well stated.

  3. Anonymous11:21 AM

    I wonder about this celebration of Christ's birth, seeing as it probably wasn't even in December if I remember my bible studies correctly. And there is some history that points to Pagan celbrations of the Winter Solstice, the celebration of the sun on 12/25 and the desire of the church to gain control of certain populations...that ended us up celebrating 12/25 as Christ's birth. So when that woman talked about political correctness and all, I think some studying up needs to be done. It would be nice if those who are so gleefully celebrating the birth of Christ remembered that others have their celebrations as well, and beliefs, that may or may not run parallel to theirs. It's all good if we are celebrating the call to be civil, kind and respectful of others and this earth we call home.

    1. Very true. The feast was originally pagan or pre-Christian and it did celebrate the Solstice - or the beginning of the year, the start of longer light. It's a beautiful feast, and it is likely that the Christian Church adopted this feast as well as Easter (another pagan feast day) to avoid competition.

      I think it's worth recognizing that the whole issue on substituting Christmas for another greeting was begun to try and respect others' beliefs. The Christians rebelled, and rightly so. But now it's all been misconstrued and become a battle of wills ... over a feast that celebrates peace on earth and a hopeful future.